Sunday, November 29, 2009

The Road of Da’wah: Roses or Thorns? ( 2)


Assalamualaikum my beloved sisters and brothers,
O My Lord! Open for me my chest (grant me self-confidence) and ease my task for me; and make loose the knot from my tongue so that they understand my speech."
[ Surah Thaha, verse 25-28 ]

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Commanding what is right and forbidding what is wrong (amr bi alma 'ruf wa nahi 'an alnunkar) is an Islamic principle that we should practice to maintain a healthy spiritual life. If we ignore this principle and do not adhere to it, we are considered as dead in spiritual and moral sense. `Abd ullah ibn Mas’ oud narrated that the messenger(sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam ) said: “Do you know who is the living dead? The one who does not command good, nor does he reject munkar.” (saheeh muslim ~also reported by Hudhaifah). The Prophet also said: “The living is the one who commands good and forbids evil, and the one who does not command good and forbid evil is the one who has desires (Hawaa) in his heart.” (Saheeh Al Bukhari, Fath ul Baari).

In our road of da’wah besides love, kindness and patient, we need to seek knowledge about Al Ma’rouf and Al Munkar. It is a requirement of our da’wah that we seek knowledge as if we do any actions without knowledge, it is ignorance. Thus, it is essential to have the knowledge of the reality of Ma’rouf and the reality of Munkar in order to command good and forbid evil for the sake of Allah. Qadi Abu Ya’la said: “He must have knowledge about the Ma’rouf that he wants to command and knowledge about the Munkar he wants to forbid, (he must be) kind when he commands and kind when he forbids, patient when he commands and patient when he forbids.” “We must seek the knowledge about what we are calling for, about whom we are calling and about the way in which we are obliged to call as a pre-requisite for our Da’wah.” (Al Mukhtasar for ibn Qudama A Maqdisi and kitab Al Mu’tamad)

Commanding good and forbidding evil is a responsibility of a believer, it is also an issue of testing our faith and if we ignore it we will be sinful.
Abu Sa'id al-Khudri said, "I heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, 'Whoever of you sees something wrong should change it with his hand; if he cannot, then with his tongue; if he cannot, then with his heart, and that is the weakest form of belief.'" [Muslim] . Allah Almighty says, "Let there be a community among you who call to the good, and enjoin the right, and forbid the wrong. They are the ones who have success." (3:104) The Almighty says, "You are the best nation ever to be produced before mankind. You enjoin the right, forbid the wrong." (3:110).
Ubaidallah narrated that the Prophet (pbuh) said: “If Muslims are in a society and they see a munkar while they are greater in number, and they do not change it (the munkar) by their hands, they are sinful.” (Saheeh muslim).

If we ignore and do not forbid those who do evil, we will also be accountable and eventually perish with them, but if we stop them from doing evil, we will have the attributes of believers and we will be successful and be saved, InshaAllah.
An-Nu'man ibn Bashir reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The metaphor of someone who stops at the limits of Allah and someone who transgresses them is that of some people who draw lots on a boat. Some of them get the upper deck and some of them the lower. When those in the lower deck want to get water, they have to pass by those above them. Then they say, 'If we were to make a hole in our deck, we would not have to bother those above us.' If they were to let them do what they wanted, all of them would perish. If they seize hold of their hands and stop them, they will be saved and all of them will be saved." [al-Bukhari].
The Almighty says, "Make allowances for people, command what is right, and turn away from the ignorant," (7:199) and the Almighty says, "The believers, men and women, are friends of one another. They command what is right and forbid what is wrong." (9:71)

Let us mujaahadah and move together on our journey returning to Allah, together seeking His redha and to attain His love and mercy, in order that we can live together in Jannah, inshaAllah.
The sage Fuzali said in one of his sermons:-
“It is strange that you wish to live in Paradise of Firdous and in the neighbourhood of the merciful with the prophets, truthful, martyrs and pious men but what actions have you done for it. What tie of relationship you have united after it was severed what faults of your brother you have forgiven, and which distant persons you have brought near for God.” (Love and brotherhood- Ihya’Ulum-ud-din~ Imam Gazzali)

May Allah forgive us, guide us all in our intention, actions, utterances, writings, etc in our path towards contributing to Islam, nurture love towards fellow Muslims and build unbreakable bonds of brotherhood, commanding what is right and forbidding what is wrong (amr bi alma 'ruf wa nahi 'an alnunkar) with knowledge, inshaAllah

Wallahualam bi shawab

References:
1. Kitaab Ul-Hisbah - Commanding Good & Forbidding Evil-Sheikh Omar bin Bakri bin Muhammad
2. Riyad al-Salihin of Imam al-Nawawi
3. Al-Musnadu Al-Sahihu bi Naklil Adli
4. al-Jaami’ al-Sahih al-Musnad al-Mukhtasar min Umur Rasool Allah wa sunanihi wa Ayyamihi.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Friendship for the sake of Allah abides in purity and sealed with modesty (hayaa’)



In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

Friendship that abides in purity and sealed with modesty is a unique relationship qualified for those who have mutual love for the sake of Allah. It is a relationship build on Islamic standards of purity and modesty which can protect us from being deceived and destroyed slowly by the poisonous arrow that can ruin our dignity as true muslims. It is also a relationship which makes us aware of our limits as a believer when we interact with someone who is non-mahram , avoiding fitnah and closing the doors that lead to fornication of the eyes, ears, tongue, heart. Moreover,it is a friendship that will be rewarded by Allah. However to reach the stage of pure love only for the sake of Allah is difficult. Only few people can attain such a friendship, that is why Allah rewards them highly for their good deed .

Mu`adh (bin Jabal) (radhiallahu 'anhu ) reported: Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said, "Allah, the Exalted, has said: `For those who love one another for the sake of My Glory, there will be seats of light (on the Day of Resurrection), and they will be envied by the Prophets and martyrs". [Tirmidhi]

Abu Hurayrah (radhiallahu 'anhu ) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said, "On the day of resurrection, Allah, the Exalted, will say, ‘Where are those who have mutual love for the sake of My Glory? Today I shall shelter them in My shade when there will be no shade except Mine." [Reported by Muslim]

Friendship for the sake of Allah abides in purity as it is based upon a sincere purpose for seeking the pleasure of Allah which brings about the love of Allah for the slave. Abu Hurayrah (radhiallahu 'anhu ) narrated that Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said, 'A man went to visit a brother of his in another village. Allah sent an Angel to wait for him on the road. When the man came, the Angel asked him, 'Where do you intend to go?' He said, 'I am going to visit a brother of mine who lives in this village.' The Angel asked, 'Have you done him any favor (for which you are now seeking repayment)?' He said, 'No, I just love him for the sake of Allah.' The Angel told him, 'I am a messenger to you from Allah, sent to tell you that He (Allah) Loves you as you love your brother for His sake.' [Saheeh Muslim]

Friendship for the sake of Allah which is sealed with hayaa’ (modesty) will be protected by Allah as Allah loves hayaa’.
" Surely Allah (is One who) has hayaa’ and is the Protector. He loves hayaa’ and people who cover each others faults."(Bukhari)
Hayaa’ is one of the characteristics of Islam so as believers we should have the quality in us.
"Every way of life has a innate character. The character of Islam is hayaa’." Or "Every Deen has an innate character. The character of Islam is modesty (hayaa’)." (Abu Dawood)
Hayaa’ brings goodness as beloved Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "Hayaa’ does not bring anything except good." (Bukhari)
Hayaa’ is a very clear indication of our Iman. As the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) had mentioned to the Ansar who was condemning is brother about being shy: "Leave him, for Hayaa’ is (a part) of Faith." (Bukhari)
And hayaa’ leads us to PARADISE. As the Prophet ( sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam )told us: "Hayaa’ comes from Iman; Iman leads to Paradise. Obscenity comes from antipathy; and antipathy leads to the fire." (Bukhari)

Let us try to attain a pure friendship sealed with modesty for the sake of Allah by keep seeking Allah’s guidance through our daily prayers.

“When My servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on Me: let them also, with a will, listen to My call, and believe in Me: that they may walk in the right way”. ( Translation of Surah : Al-Baqarah 2:186)

The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "Hayaa’ and trustworthiness will be the first to go from this world; therefore keep asking Allah for them." (Baihaqi)

Wallahualam bi shawab

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

orang yang bijaksana


Menjadi insan yang bijaksana adalah impian setiap pelajar, namun begitu, perlu ada niat yang suci, usaha dengan berbekalkan ilmu, menjalani kehidupan dengan penuh kesabaran dan memastikan agar cinta akhirat lebih daripada cinta dunia.

Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W "Barangsiapa Menuju Suatu Jalan Untuk Mencari Ilmu, Nescaya Allah Akan Memudahkan Baginya Suatu Jalan Menuju Ke Syurga"(Riwayat Muslim)

Syd.Othman Ibnu Affan Rha. berkata:
Antara tanda-tanda orang yang bijaksana itu ialah:
• Hatinya selalu berniat suci
• Lidahnya selalu basah dengan zikrullah
• Kedua matanya menangis kerana penyesalan (terhadap dosa)
• Segala perkara dihadapainya dengan sabar dan tabah
• Mengutamakan kehidupan akhirat daripada kehidupan dunia"

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Hope in Allah's Love and Mercy



Life is full of challenges
so be strong and steadfast
in all our steps we take
as our days may pass with pain,
sorrow may melt our comfort
like the rain without the sun

So remember Allah
and never give up our hope
as there is comfort after sorrow
smile after tears
when He shine our pathway of life
with The Light of Truth
and with His Everlasting Love and Mercy

~nur sakinah thomas
11.18pm
8th November 2009

May Allah grant us the ability

May Allah grant us the ability
to make true love grow
in our hearts because
where there is true love
there are always miracles................

May Allah grant us the ability
to gain insight from
Rumi's message of LOVE
so that we may love one another for the sake of Allah........
InshaAllah

with love and du'as

Saturday, November 7, 2009

In the name of love for Allah



Let the seeds of love
grow in your heart,
with the ray of sun
glittering the drops of rain
bringing warmth and comfort
creating happiness and inner peace
deep in the heart
in the name of love for Allah

The budding flowers of love
beginning to bloom gracefully
through rain or shine
it never withers
believing there is rainbow
after the heaviest downpour
trusting there is dawn
after the the darkest night
bringing the light of tranquility
in the name of love for Allah..........

nur sakinah
1.45am
8th November,2009

Developing a high level of positive self esteem.



Developing a high level of positive self esteem can lead us to become an optimistic person who can handle daily life situations, conflicts, resisting negative pressures, dealing with trials and tribulations and eventually develop good interpersonal and intrapersonal skills as a true muslim in our daily life for the sake of Allah. Positive self esteem is believing in oneself, having self respect, allowing the love to grow in us, developing the ability to accept ourselves in a positive way and the ability to avoid depression and living a tranquil life in Allah’s Love and Light.

Besides that, high level of positive self esteem is self-confidence which involves beliefs about ability and future performance. Our inner self will be self esteemed where we are able to balance love, honesty and truth to build self-confidence and be competent to cope with life’s challenges and live a worthy life for the sake of Allah. A muslim with a positive, high self esteem loves and appreciates life, reflects a positive image from within that often leads to being humble, forgiving and believes in learning from mistakes and striving to achieve potential success in this life and in the hereafter. This can make us reach a stage where we can have the courage and inner strength to actually change the hurting moments of the challenges in life into healing moments by the will of Allah. Psychologist says that almost every aspect of our lives -- our personal happiness, success, relationships with others, achievement, creativity, dependencies are dependent on our level of self-esteem. Hence, having a high level of positive self esteem is essential to us in order to have consistent strength, confidence, and ability to face, deal and go through all the trials and challenges in life effectively with a positive mind-set and live a worthy life for the sake of Allah.

Wallahualam bissawab
With love and du’as,

Monday, October 12, 2009

The reality of success of a TRUE MUSLIM student



The reality of success of a TRUE MUSLIM student
(a special dedication to my beloved children and students)

Success is not just gaining straight “A”s on papers
Struggling to score with flying colours
As for a successful true muslim student
the reality of success goes beyond that....

Success is
Never breaking someone heart,
Showing gratitude to someone ,
Sharing and forgiving,
Feeling empathy and sympathy
Loving and caring willing
Possessing all the good attributes
Reflecting them through personality

Thus a true muslim student’s dream
is not only to be academically successful
The dream goes far beyond that
A true muslim student
is not the one who sees the mud
But is the one who sees the stars…………
And keep beautifying the internal self………….

As true muslim students
Being successful spiritually, emotionally and intellectually
Is the ultimate aim,
Living a life not to please others
But to please Allah by always seeking His Redho
In our thoughts, speech and actions…………….
In order to gain His Love and Mercy
In reality is our ultimate success.............................

9.48am 13/10/09
Wishing all the best to all my beloved children,
my beloved students and all the other students...........
for their final examination for this semester ………
Do your BEST and leave the REST to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
With love and du’as always

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Love that shines through


Love that shines through
There are times in life the going gets tough,
Nothing seems to be right, pressure all along the path
Wishing for a ray of hope to glimmer in the pouring rain of trials
But the more we move on, the dimmest light began to fade
Hoping for a ray of love to shimmer in the pouring rain of doubts
To ease the pain, to enlighten the burden,
Believing that love is the solution to ease all the hardship

When our heart is open to the Love of Allah
The light begin to shine along our pathway of life
Bearing all hardship and melting the moments with joy
Bringing happiness and inner tranquility
Believing that
Where there is strong love
There is always endurance…………..
Where there is true love
There are always blessings…………
where there is great love
There are always miracles………………

3.42pm 10/10/09
~nur sakinah~

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Positive thinking



Sometimes in life we meet situations where we are drowning
in all our unexplainable dreams, unanswered doubts,
unquenchable quest, unrequited love…..on our pathway of life…….
the more we try to find the answers and reasons to ease the pain
the more we feel the pain………. its more hurting than healing…….

But when we finally stay where we are,
reflect and contemplate on our life,
accept the unacceptable,
we will finally get the answers
to all our dreams, doubts, quest, and love in our life,
eventually the healing process flows in
when we admit our weaknesses and surrender to our Al Mighty Allah……..
it brings contentment in our hearts
and the light of tranquility will penetrate
into our soul, making us grow in spiritual maturity……
InshaAllah………..

with love and du'a

May Allah make things easy for us………….



May Allah make things easy for us………….
Sometimes with a simple smile will can brighten someone’s heart,
Sometimes by just replying a friend’s salam we can cheer up the person,
But the sad thing is we take friendship for granted,
We expect to receive more than giving,
waiting to get more from others than we sharing willingly....
wanting to be loved by others than we being loving to others........
wishing to be forgiven by someone than being a forgiving person ....
Our excuses: busy, no idea, no time, etc,etc,etc,etc…………….
without being aware of us being selfish than selfless
in our attitude, thoughts and deeds,
the truth hurts, but the truth is the truth, we cannot escape,
we pay more attention on the things
that can bring happiness and pleasure to us
without being aware of whether through our actions,thoughts and speech
we might have hurt someone’s feelings due to our negligence
May Allah forgive us, and make us aware of the needs of our friends,
grant us the ability to meet their needs,
guide us on our pathway to be true muslims………….
and May Allah make things easy for us………………………….
With love and du’a.



Abu Hurairah (May Allah bepleased with him) reported:
The Prophet (PBUH) said, "He who removes from a believer one of his difficulties of this world, Allah will remove one of his troubles on the Day of Resurrection; and he who finds relief for a hard-pressed person, Allah will make things easy for him on the Day of Resurrection; he who covers up (the faults and sins) of a Muslim, Allah will cover up (his faults and sins) in this world and in the Hereafter. Allah supports His slave as long as the slave is supportive of his brother; and he who treads the path in search of knowledge, Allah makes that path easy, leading to Jannah for him; the people who assemble in one of the houses of Allah, reciting the Book of Allah, learning it and teaching, there descends upon them the tranquility, and mercy covers them, the angels flock around them, and Allah mentions them in the presence of those near Him; and he who lags behind in doing good deeds, his noble lineage will not make him go ahead."

29/245 - Riyad Us-Saliheen (Gardens of the Righteous)

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Eid Mubarak

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Wishing you the blessings of Eid ul Fitr



BismiAllah erRahman erRahim
The month of Ramadan 2009 has come to the end,
Ibnu Rajab express his deep feelings of the departure of Ramadan
through his poetic expression which can touch our hearts:


"Ibn Rajab" said:

O month of Ramadan, slow down.

Tears of your lovers are overflowing.

Their hearts are about to be broken.

So, slow down, lest the last moment before going apart calms down our pains.

Lest a man who was away from Allah can catch up with those who are accepted.

Lest Allah (SWT) sets a man who committed a lot of sins free of his sins.

Lest Allah (SWT) forgives a man who deserves hell.

O month of Ramadan, slow down.

MashaAllah, what a touching poem which can be felt deep in our hearts.
Those days pious people continuously seek forgiveness in fear as actions does not guarantee success.

Abdul Azeez ibn Abee Ruwaad said: "I have met people very diligent in performing actions, and upon completion of those actions they are faced with sadness in fear of the action being accepted or not."
Some Salaf used to say: "The people of the past would supplicate 6 months to Allah to allow them to reach the month of Ramadan, and then upon completion of the month, they would again supplicate 6 months (begging) for acceptance of their fast."
Some of the Salaf would display sadness on the day of Eid. It was said to them: "This is a day of happiness and joy!"
They would respond: "You have spoken the truth, but I am a servant, my Lord has ordered me to perform an action but I am not sure if He will accept it from me or not."
We are far from possessing the characteristic of those pious people but we can still strive in our efforts to possess the quality of being moderate and having a true heart which constantly seeking Allah’s mercy which can make us reach our ultimate target, that is to gain His Love, InshaAllah.

Bukhari records on the authority of Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (pbuh) said, "Your actions alone will not save any of you." They asked, Messenger of Allah, not even you?, He replied, 'Not even me, unless, Allah were to envelop me in His mercy. Be firm; steadfast and balanced; and journey [to Allah] in the beginning of the day, the end of the day, and a portion of the latter part of the night. Moderation, moderation! Through this you will attain your goal!"

Hasan (al Basri) said: "Increase in you seeking of forgiveness, for verily you don’t know when the mercy of Allah will befall you."
Luqman said to his son: "Oh my son, condition your tongue to constantly seek forgiveness from Allah. Verily Allah has specific hours that He does not reject supplication."

No matter what we still need to be thankful to Allah for His numerous blessings despite our shortcomings and flaw. We must also praise Allah in order to show our gratitude to Allah for His wondrous guidance due to His enduring Love and Mercy.
Allah said:"He wants you to complete the same number (of days) and that must magnify Allah (takbir) for having guided you and so that you may be grateful to Him." (Translation -Al-Baqarah 2:185)

So let us seek Allah’s forgiveness and Mercy
in our du’a in order to attain His enduring Love
and may Allah forgive us for all our shortcomings,
and let us be thankful to Allah
for His bounteous blessings He showers on us,
for His unfailing love and for His illuminating light.............

Wishing you all a tranquil and blessed Eid
full of refections and contemplation…….

'Taqaballahu minna wa minkum’
[may Allah accept (our deeds) from me and you].

Love and du’as always

Monday, September 14, 2009

A Reason, A Season or a Lifetime……………



A Reason, A Season or a Lifetime……………

If someone comes into your life for a REASON,
They will guide you, support you, and aid you
Emotionally, physically and most of all spiritually
But without any shortcomings on your part
They will bring the relationship to an end


If someone comes into your life for a SEASON,
Your time has come to learn, to grow, to share
They will give you the peace, the joy, the lessons of life
But they come only for a while
As they are for a season


If someone comes into your life for LIFETIME relationship
You will have a secure foundation
Build with joys and sorrows shared together
With love and care build on solid foundation
Sharing and forgiving no matter what happens
But most of all, loving one another for Allah
Together …….being lovers of Allah………..
Thank you so much for being a part of my life,
Whether you are a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME…………..

~nur sakinah thomas~
~ November 2008~

Thursday, September 10, 2009

friendship for the sake of Allah


A true Muslim
is one who always does good to other people
and the most touching part is
never expecting anything in return
as the friendship is sealed for the sake of Allah....

Sealing A Friendship For The Sake Of Allah



Assalamualaikum my beloved brothers and sisters,

Sealing a friendship for the sake of Allah is based on true bond of love that exists between two people above worldly motives, gains and purposes. It is a relationship based on compassion, empathy, selflessness, honesty, trustworthiness and sincerity. It is indeed a high level of piety filled with genuine support and helping one another just for the sake of Allah. We must bear in mind that only those who love one another truly for the sake of Allah are ones who will earn a blessed reward from Allah.
Narrated by Mu`adh Bin Jabal [may Allah be pleased with him]: Allah's Messenger [Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him] said, "Allah, the Exalted, has said: “For those who love one another for the sake of My Glory, there will be seats of light (on the Day of Standing), and they will be envied by the Prophets and Martyrs".
[Al-Tirmidhi]

Ibn Abbas said: "No one may taste true faith except by this (i.e. building relationships for Allah's sake), even if his prayers and fasts are many. People have come to build their relationship around the concerns of the world, but it will not benefit them in any way."

Sealing a friendship for the sake of Allah is always a responsibility and never an opportunity as it is more than an ordinary friendship. In friendship for the sake of Allah we have sharing and giving, loving and caring, forgiving and respecting, Living a life overflowing with love for the sake of Allah, helping one another in good deeds with a selfless attitude and without causing hurt and displeasure, joining together to uphold the dignity of Islam in peace and harmonious way, bringing one another closer to Allah to seek His Mercy and Love always.

A scholar has said: "To seal a friendship for Allah's sake indicates the obligation of establishing relationships of love and trust for His sake; this is a friendship for the sake of Allah. It also indicates that simple affection is not enough here; indeed what is meant is a love based upon alliance. This entails assistance, honour, and respect. It means being with those whom you love both in word and deed."
Narrated by Abu Dharr Ghifaari [may Allah be pleased with him]: Allah's Messenger [Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him] said: "The best of deeds is to love for the sake of Allah and to hate for the sake of Allah".
[Sunan Abu Dawood: 4582]

Are we worried when our brothers or sisters face difficulties? Do we support our friends’ welfare and do we pray for them when they face adversity? Do we advice our lost sisters who expose their a’uraat, and our lost brothers to restrain from sinful lust. Allah made the believers as brothers and sisters so that they have mercy upon one another; so that they love one another; so that they help one another and support one another. This is how Muslims should be.

Anas Bin Malik [may Allah be pleased with him] narrated that a desert Arab said to Allah's Messenger [Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him]: “When will be the Last Hour?” Allah's Messenger said: “What preparation have you made for it?” Thereupon he said: “I love Allah and His Messenger”. Thereupon he (Allah's Messenger) said: “You will be with the one you love”.
[Sahih Muslim: Book 32, Number 6378]


May Allah forgive us and place us in the group of people who truly love each other for the sake of Allah and May Allah forgive us and bless our friendship for the sake of Allah

Imam Shafi'i :"I accompanied the Sufi people and I received from them three knowledges: ... how to speak; .. how to treat people with leniency and a soft heart... and they... guided me in the ways of Sufism." [Kashf al-Khafa, 'Ajluni, vol. 1, p 341.]

Imam Ghazzali : "I knew verily that Sufis are the seekers in Allah's Way, and their conduct is the best conduct, and their way is the best way, and their manners are the most sanctified. They have cleaned their hearts from other than Allah and they have made them as pathways for rivers to run receiving knowledge of the Divine Presence." [al-Munqidh, p. 131].


Still learning to be a good friend for the sake of Allah.

Lahaula wala quwwata illa billahil aliyul azeem

With love and duas always
Sister Nur Sakinah
25th August 2009

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Allah’s LOVE is a Divine Gift


Allah’s LOVE is a Divine Gift

It is shown through
Forgiveness, Compassion, Mercy
No words can define it
It’s so complex, so unique, so enigmatic,
Only He comprehends it
It can change dullness
Into beauty and grace
It is selflessness
Giving more than it takes
It’s enduring, patient and kind
It’s faithful, trusting, and truthful
Full of honesty
Ever enduring,
Unconditional ……
It’s beyond man’s conception
And beyond humans love
It can change sorrows
Into joy and tranquility
Only in Allah can love find true perfection,
So, I live my life for Your Divine LOVE O ALLAH,
As Allah is All-Sufficient for me.

~nur sakinah thomas ~
6.06am , 20th December,2008


Subhan'Allah..........
A true muslimah is like a blooming red rose.....
The red rose symbolizes beauty and love
which are the internal qualities of a true muslimah
and can only be felt by the heart
as the true beauty of a true muslimah
goes beyond physical beauty......

A poem for my beloved sister in Melbourne, Australia


Sisterhood poem
This poem is from my heart to your heart,
thank you for being a wonderful inspiring sister

You are like a rose
Ever blooming beyond the walls
Spreading fragrance that melts the heart
Sharing and giving unfailingly

You are like the rose
Each of the petals delighting the eyes
Capturing the rhythms of our hearts
Loving and caring unfailingly

~nur sakinah~
12.05am, sunday, 5th June, 2009

Thank you Allah for your blessings!

The rose, which symbolizes
beauty and love are the internal qualities
of a true muslimah’s personality which attracts the people around.

Sunday, September 6, 2009


The Rain Drops Never Fail To Come
(a poem from my heart to your heart)

The rain drops never fail to come
Shading the sunshine along the path
When the heart feels the grief
The rainbow glows in the skies
The beauty is shone the grief is gone
In a barren field frozen with snow
the petals of love began to grow
As I clutch the moments of joy
In the midst of sorrow
When I realize Allah has given me
Friends I can call sisters
Whom I can trust and love
For the sake of Allah.

with love and duas
~sakinah~
12.12am 23/08/09

The Journey of Life

The journey of life
is full of challenges
just continue to trod
to follow your dreams in life
never giving up in times of stress

The journey of life
will be a pathway of light
if you believe and follow
Allah's illuminating Light of Truth
as all your dreams will then become a reality....
InshaAllah..............

~nur sakinah~
11.22pm
6th September 2009

Saturday, September 5, 2009


Light of Hope

There is light at the end of the tunnel,
there is hope in the end of each trial
just put your trust in Allah
for His love never fails even in the end
there is light in the end of each trail
just put your faith in Allah
for His Mercy never fails even till the end......

~nur sakinah~
12.31am
5th September 2009

Monday, August 3, 2009

Living through the eyes of rose-tinted glasses ~A sisterly reminder ~


May Allah guide us on our journey
to become true muslimahs and strive as mujahidah fiisabiilillaah………

My beloved sisters,
Let’s struggle to make our life bloom beautifully
enriching our glow with drops of love,
spreading our fragrance of humility, modesty and decency
as the true beauty of a true muslimah is not seen by eyes
but is felt by the heart
as the quality of being pleasing
does not seem to lie only in the physical feature of a woman.
In reality true beauty of a true muslimah goes beyond that.
The struggle to beautify ourselves externally
with the worldly colours without the sense of humility, modesty and decency
will only cause the internal colours of a muslimah to fade away……………

My beloved sisters,
Life is full of challenges
and not all roses,
but look at the positive side of each trials Allah make us go through.
so let’s look at life through the eyes of rose-tinted glasses
in our struggle to be true muslimahs
as the values gained will be beyond worldly purpose.
When the going gets tough, our dreams scattered,
there is always a way out
if we live through the eyes of rose-tinted glasses,
InshaAllah…………………………

Ana uhibbukunna fillah ya akhawaatee
With love and duas always
~sister nur sakinah thomas~
6pm , 1st August , 2009

*My special thanks to my beloved sister an-necim
for giving me the inspiration to write this sisterly reminder for the sake of Allah*


“And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what must ordinarily appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers, or their brothers’ sons or their sisters’ sons, or their women or the servants whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex, and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O you Believers, turn you all together towards Allah, that you may attain Bliss.” (Al Quran 24:31).


" ...Then do you believe in a part of the Scripture and reject the rest? Then what is the recompense of those who do so among you, except disgrace in the life of this world, and on the Day of Resurrection they shall be consigned to the most grievous torment. And Allah is not unaware of what you do."(Al Quran 2:85)

“……And seek forgiveness of Allah. Verily, Allah is Oft- Forgiving, Most-Merciful.”(Al-Quran73:20)

Monday, July 20, 2009

Is our friendship qualified as friendship for the sake of Allah?



Assalamualaikum my beloved brothers and sisters,

Is our friendship qualified as friendship for the sake of Allah?

Friendship for the sake of Allah is based on true love that exists between two people above worldly motives or gains. It is based on compassion, empathy, selflessness, trustworthiness and sincerity. It is a high level of piety filled with genuine support and helping one another just for the sake of Allah. Only those who love one another truly for the sake of Allah are ones who will earn a blessed reward from Allah.

We admit that we love one another for the sake of Allah, but in reality we are not. We are not worried if our brothers or sisters are in trouble, we do not help, support or show them our care. There is no yearning desire when we did not meet our friends for some time, we don’t care if our lost sisters expose their a’uraat, we do not advise our lost brothers to restrain from sinful lust, we are not bothered about our friends’ welfare and we do not pray for them when they face adversity. So, is our friendship qualified as friendship for the sake of Allah?

Narrated by Mu`adh Bin Jabal [may Allah be pleased with him]: Allah's Messenger [Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him] said, "Allah, the Exalted, has said: “For those who love one another for the sake of My Glory, there will be seats of light (on the Day of Standing), and they will be envied by the Prophets and Martyrs".
[Al-Tirmidhi]

Narrated by Abu Dharr Ghifaari [may Allah be pleased with him]: Allah's Messenger [Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him] said: "The best of deeds is to love for the sake of Allah and to hate for the sake of Allah".
[Sunan Abu Dawood: 4582]


Anas Bin Malik [may Allah be pleased with him] narrated that a desert Arab said to Allah's Messenger [Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him]: “When will be the Last Hour?” Allah's Messenger said: “What preparation have you made for it?” Thereupon he said: “I love Allah and His Messenger”. Thereupon he (Allah's Messenger) said: “You will be with the one you love”.
[Sahih Muslim: Book 32, Number 6378]

And as Ibn Abbas said: "No one may taste true faith except by this (i.e. building relationships for Allah's sake), even if his prayers and fasts are many. People have come to build their relationship around the concerns of the world, but it will not benefit them in any way."

A scholar has said: "To seal a friendship for Allah's sake indicates the obligation of establishing relationships of love and trust for His sake; this is a friendship for the sake of Allah. It also indicates that simple affection is not enough here; indeed what is meant is a love based upon alliance. This entails assistance, honour, and respect. It means being with those whom you love both in word and deed."

May Allah forgive us and place us in the group of people who truly love each other for the sake of Allah.

Lahaula wala quwwata illa billahil aliyul azeem

With love and duas always
Sister Nur Sakinah
20/07/09

Monday, June 22, 2009

May Allah shower us...........















Saturday, June 6, 2009

Spice of life- Sharing the same interest




I thank Allah for giving me children with different interest, my son doing his first degree in chemical sciences studies in USM, my twin daughters, first degree in science horticulture in UPM, and accountancy UUM and my youngest daughter who is still schooling is interested in language just like me! As a mother we want the best for our children, but sometimes we need to give them some room to move, to explore, to discover their own interest, but we have to guide them in their road of success and make sure it is in line in seeking Allah’s pleasure. Bringing up children especially during their teenage and adolescent years is not easy, sometimes it’s enjoyable, sometimes it’s not smooth and the going gets tough. That is why we need to put love as an important ingredient in our family life. We have to remember that children are Allah’s gift, our responsibility to bring them up as true Muslims. Love them, cherish each moment with them, talk to them, and the most important thing let them grow in love so that they can discover in their journey of life the essence of Allah’s love and parents love.

My youngest daughter’s, who is 14 years this year, has a great passion to write and she is good at creative arts too. Recently she showed me her first article which was published in her school magazine. Alhamdulillah,the editorial board in her school was touched with her work and it was selected although there were many other contributions from the senior students. I felt that I am seeing a reflection of me in her, as my first article was also published in a school magazine when I was 14! That was 30 years ago! Today, she create a blogspot where she will start writing with her creative mind. Alhamdullilah. Well done Jehaada, Ummi will always pray for your success dunia akhirat!!!! I always tell my daughter that in order to be a writer who can touch the lives of others; we must open the door of discovering of our inner self, explore and grow in passion to write no matter what happens. The most important thing is our intention not to seek human admiration but write to make ourselves and others closer to Allah for the sake of our love to Allah and His Prophet (pbuh)…………..

We should keep the following hadith in mind when dealing with children:
Sunan of Abu Dawood Hadith Narrated by A'isha
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said to me, "O A'isha, be gentle, for gentleness hasnever been used in anything without beautifying it; and it has never been removed from something without debasing it."

Thursday, June 4, 2009

The journey of seeking Islamic knowledge as a muslim convert



~ sharing my own experience with new converts~

Assalamualaikum my beloved brothers and sisters,

All praise is for Allah, the Lord and Cherisher of the Universe. We praise Him and seek His help and forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the weaknesses of own deeds. Whomever Allah guides, cannot be lead astray and whomever Allah does not guide, none can guide him. I bear witness that none has the right to be worshipped except Allah, alone without associate, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His Messenger. May the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, his household, his companions and all those who follow them in righteousness till the Day of Judgment.

Life as a Muslim convert is VERY challenging especially when we are in search of knowledge, living in a non Islamic environment and still maintaining close family ties with non Muslim family members. In order to understand Islamic knowledge and gain wisdom, we need guidance and support. We need a pious murshid (a teacher ) to guide us in understanding in order that we can implement the Islamic practice in our lives in the right way on the straight path. We must know that Islam is not a self-interpretation religion, we cannot just try to gain our knowledge in Islam through reading books, surfing the internet etc as there are many web sites that can be very deceiving. We should not be panic if we received message stating about certain websites propagating falsehood Islamic teaching. At the same time there are also many websites created by good Muslims who have good intentions of bringing someone closer to Allah and His Prophet (pbuh). When we are guided, we can differentiate the truth of Islam from the created falsehoods that are being propagated as Islamic teachings. So, in learning Islam, self-teaching by referring to websites can draw us into many pitfalls and lead us astray if we are not guided. Allah mentioned in the Holy Quran, “If you know not, then ask those who have got knowledge of the Book.” (Translation: Surah An-Nahl: 43).

Classical Islamic education was taught through direct contact with teachers for many centuries. Through this wisdom and knowledge are acquired and application of the way truly put forth by Allah and His Messenger (pbuh) is practiced. Furthermore, we should not stop learning as learning is a continuous process; never stop from being a learner. One of attributes of learning is humility. To be a learner we need the sense of humility. Besides that, Imam Ghazali said “Nobody is born learned. Learning is to be acquired. The prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: If a man seeks the path of acquiring knowledge, God guides him to a path leading to Paradise. He said: Angels spread their wings out of cheer for the seeker of knowledge. He said: To rise up at dawn and learn a section of knowledge is better for you than to pray one hundred rak’ats.” There are also some people whom Allah open the khasyaf. When a person has acquired the knowledge and practice it sincerely and wholeheartedly, always reciting the Holy Quran and dzkr, Allah will bless him and increase his piousness and open the khasyaf , it’s the hidden knowledge which Allah gives to those He loves. But this is only for Allah’s chosen ones.

Finally, we should also be very careful of the authenticity and genuineness of a murshid (a teacher ). Some of the qualities of a true murshid are having true akhlaq, his life is dedicated to Allah, his face reflects his piousness and his taqwa, his actions reveal his wisdom of knowledge. When we are guided by a true mursyid, we can gain wisdom through the knowledge we learn from him. Knowledge with wisdom will make us LOVE Allah, walk in the straight path and not just follow Islam blindly. When we love Allah, we will dedicate our whole life to Him. Thus a good teacher will help us along the path to Allah. May Allah grant us sense of humility and humanity and may Allah bless us and guide us in His Light of Truth as we trod further on the pathway of our journey returning to Him.

Laa haulawala quwwata illa billa hil alyyil aadzim

With love and duas always,
sister nur sakinah thomas
6.18pm
2nd June 2009

Because of the importance of knowledge, Allaah commanded His Messenger (pbuh) to seek more of it. Allaah says (what means): "and say: `My Lord! Increase me in knowledge" [Translation Surah Ta-Ha:114]

The Prophet (pbuh) said: "When a man dies, all his deeds come to an end except for three — an ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge or a righteous child who will pray for him." (Muslim)

On the authority of Zayd ibn Arqam radhiallaahu `anhu that the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam used to say, "O Allaah, I seek refuge in you from knowledge which does not benefit, from a heart which does not feel humble, from a soul that does not feel contended and from an invocation that is not answered."[Muslim]

Sunday, May 24, 2009

A poem for my beloved sister



This poem is written & dedicated specially for my beloved sister “An-necim” in Australia, one of my best sisters in Islam, who have taught me the values of friendship for the sake of Allah…………………….
Thank you Allah for Your Blessings………………

Love in friendship for the sake of Allah

The holy passion of Friendship
For the sake of Allah
Is Built on trust, honesty and love
So sweet , loyal and enduring
Lasting through a whole lifetime
Surviving through thick and thin, ups and down
Together painting the song of love
On the canvas of friendship for the sake of Allah
Spreading the colours of life
following the rhythm of our hearts

Friendship for the sake of Allah has magic,
specially when they come from the heart.
They can touch us, move us, delight us, and enlighten us,
Making us shed tears and at times blooming in smiles
Enriching our deepest memories

True friendship for the sake of Allah can bind a stranger to another,
often in friendship, sometimes in love, always in better understanding.
love and passion words
communicate deep and profound feelings of the heart and soul.
Sharing the feelings, the experience of life
In giving its living
In sharing its budding
Sharing sadness and joy
In the clutches of warm and comfort
In Allah’s bounteous mercy
In Allah’s everlasting Love
Our friendship will endure…………………………..

nur sakinah thomas
11.35pm, 18th May 2009

Monday, May 18, 2009

To find You is my treasure & To love You is my pleasure O Allah

Thank you Allah

This is forever friendship. Thank you Allah for this forever friendship.



Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it,
Someone who makes you smile;
someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that
There really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
This is forever friendship.
When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty,
Your forever friend lifts you up in spirit
and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,
The sad times, and the confused times,
If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows.
If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete,
Because you need not worry…….
You have a forever friend for life, and forever has no end.
As we become brothers and sisters in Allah’s everlasting love……….
InsyaAllah………………...



Buat Sahabat
"Aku menyayangi sahabatku dengan segenap jiwaku.Sahabat yang baik adalah yang seiring denganku dan menjaga nama baikku ketika aku hidup atau selepas mati.Kuhulurkan tangan kepada sahabatku untuk berkenalan kerana aku akan berasa senang.Semakin ramai sahabat, aku semakin percaya diri.Aku selalu berharap mendapat sahabat sejati yang tak luntur dalam suka atau duka.Jika aku dapat, aku akan setia padanya- IMAM SHAFIE

Rain of Blessings



O Allah,
Our Light of Heaven and Earth
Forgive us for all our sins,
We seek Your refuge
for all our Muslim brothers and sisters
Who are suffering,
We urgently need Your Mercies,
Please turn their tears of pain,
To tears of joy,
O Allah,
Our Guardian in this world and in the Hereafter,
Forsake us not in times of calamity,
Lighten our burden
Strengthen our imaan
Save us from the disgrace in this world,
And from the punishment in the Hereafter
Shower the seeds of love for You in our hearts
With Your Rain of Blessings
For You, O Allah, will always be
Our true lover……………..

DESTINASI PELAYARANKU



Perjalanan hidup ini
Bagaikan pelayaran di tengah samudera
Yang kadang-kadang tenang mendamaikan
Namun tanpa sebarang petanda
Ombak ganas mula bergelora
Demikian persis kehidupan ini.

Ya Allah....
Kurniakan aku Cinta AgungMu
Agar aku bisa
Mengemudi bahteraku
Di tengah samudera kehidupan
Yang tidak menjanjikan ketenangan
Agar aku punyai kekuatan
Mengharungi ombak ujian
Pelayaran yang sementara ini.

Saat aku tiba di destinasi pelayaranku,
Moga-moga aku bisa
Meraih cinta agung mu Ya Ilahi
Di akhir pelayaran ku

~nukilan nur sakinah thomas~
4.18pm, 2nd January,2009

Saturday, May 16, 2009

When Nur Pervades the Heart




When Nur Pervades the Heart
The women would arise
From the world of darkness
To the light of happiness

Because imaan and Islam
Has become a certainy
The heart and soul are sacrificed
For the sake of Islam

From the world of ignorance
Not knowing faith and belief
And from the land of sins
Towards happiness and peace

From the world of blasphemy
Towards the light of truth
Though it’s a long way home
To the religion of truth

O women of the latter days
Come let us struggle together
With imaan and Islam in our hearts,
Loving Allah wholeheartedly,
Coz GARDEN OF PARADISE IS CALLING US………..

~nur sakinah thomas~
~December 2008~

MY DAWN IS NEAR





In the Name of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful

My days will pass
Like the shadows of yesterdays,
I’ll strive on forward with faith in my heart,
Never drifting back to my past,

I’ll endure the pressure,
Of obstacles along my way,
Even when the world is crushing around me,
Trusting in Allah and depending on Him,
Seeking muraqabah in all my deeds

There is a land beyond the sea,
Where waves and mountains meet,
There is hope in Allah’s love
Where tears and comfort meets,
Just like a rainbow that comforts after rain,

I’ll accept the challenges,
And keep my dream alive,
No matter how dark the moment may be,
Believing in Allah and depending on Him,
That there will be dawn after the darkest night
Coz I believe that my dawn is near……………………
~nur sakinah thomas~
16th December 2008

The path to paradise through seeking Allah’s Rehdo, Mercy, Forgiveness and Love




BismiAlllah erRahman erRahim
No matter how beautiful we describe the beauties and pleasures of the paradise , the beauties and pleasures are far beyond our imagination, far beyond our logic, far beyond our knowledge. So we should be very careful of how we do the Quranic description , don’t let our self imagination be too sensual and unnaturally causing the distortion of the facts.

Allah has given us the freedom of speech, thought and action but we must remember that our speech, thoughts and actions should always be restricted and qualified according to the teaching of Islam because Allah reminds us:
“.. Verily! The hearing, and the sight, and the heart, of each of those you will be questioned (by Allah)” (Translation SurahAl-Isra’:36)

It is not wrong to aim for paradise, but actually our highest aim is not solely to seek paradise but to seek Allah Redho, Mercy , Forgiveness and Love.

"This is a Day on which the truthful will profit from their truth: theirs are Gardens under which rivers flow (in Paradise) - they shall abide therein forever. Allah is pleased with them and they with Him. That is the great success (Paradise). (Translation Surah Al Maidah: 119)

“And have in their minds no favor from anyone for which a reward is expected in return. But only the desire to seek for the countenance of their Lord Most High. And soon will they attain (complete) satisfaction.”(Translation Surah Al-Lail: 19-21)

“There is no good in most of their secret talks save (in) him who orders Sadaqah (charity in Allah's Cause), or Ma'ruf (Islamic Monotheism and all the good and righteous deeds which Allah has ordained), or conciliation between mankind, and he who does this, seeking the good Pleasure of Allah, We shall give him a great reward” (Translation Surah An-Nisa:114)

“He will admit to His Mercy whom He will ………..”(Translation Surah Al-Insan: 31)

“He punishes whom He will, and shows mercy to whom He will, and to Him you will be returned.” (Translation Surah Al-Ankabut: 21)

“………That is best for those who seek Allah's Countenance, and it is they who will be successful.” (Translation Surah Ar-Rum: 38)

“Except those who repent and do righteous deeds, and openly declare (the truth which they concealed). These, I will accept their repentance. And I am the One Who accepts repentance, the Most Merciful.”(Translation Surah Al-Baqarah: 160)

“you will certainly find it with Allah, better and greater in reward. And seek Forgiveness of Allah. Verily, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most-Merciful.” (Translation Surah Al Muzzammil:20)

"Those who humble themselves in their prayer, and turn away from all that is frivolous, who are intent on inner purity, who are mindful of their chastity, ...... ..who are faithful to their trusts and pledges, and who guard their prayers, it is they, who will be the heirs who shall inherit paradise to live therein for ever." (Translation Surah Al-Mu’minun:1-11)

May Allah place us in the group of people who are good in showing gratitude and being thankful to Allah and our brothers and sisters and may Allah place us in the group of people seeking Allah’s Redho, Mercy, Forgiveness and Love. Ameen.



Thank you Allah for Your blessings.

Laa haulawala quwwata illa billa hil alyyil aadzim.

With love and duas ,
Sakinah
10.47am 30th April 2009


Mafhuum from hadith :
Narrated by Imam Ahmad ,the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: “Truly people who are most grateful in thanking Allah, they are the ones who are greatly thankful to others.”
Narrated by Tirmidzi, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: “Those who are not thankful to Allah are not being thankful to others.”

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

The Road of Da’wah: Roses or Thorns?



Assalamualaikum my beloved brothers and sisters,

"O My Lord! Open for me my chest (grant me self-confidence) and ease my task for me; and make loose the knot from my tongue so that they understand my speech."
[ Surah Thaha, verse 25-28 ]
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
In the process of da'wah , LOVE is an essential matter. A deep personal relationship and forging a sense of trust is essential for the gradual process of da’wah as this builds appreciation, love and understanding. The long, arduous road of da'wah is not without its perils. Sometimes we observe the da'wah process from some quarters bringing more hurt than healing. That’s because many do not understand that the process of change is not just about stating religious laws or values. It needs to begin with LOVE. We also need to nurture the seed of love gradually with words of wisdom, understanding heart and trust.
Cultural and race differences will not be a barrier if we begin with love for Allah to bring others to Him as our intention. It is natural to have the sense of need to give advice or even warnings to family or friends as being good Muslims. Anger, regret and sometimes even depression becomes the consequence of our "lack of courage" to pursue corrective action. The lack of soft-heartedness and eloquence may result in dire consequences. Harshness has no place in da'wah and may instead turn someone away from Islam, as Allah has warned.
"It is part of the Mercy of Allah that you deal gently with them. And had you been severe or harsh-hearted, surely they would have broken away from you: so look over (their faults), and ask for (Allah's) forgiveness for them..."
[ Surah Ali Imran, verse 159 ]
“However, to have perfection is only afforded to our prophets. As for us, being normal Muslims, who are not free from sin, and sometimes lack the required eloquence. Inevitably, harshness may surface in difficult circumstances - whether a lack of time or meticulousness in our choice of words.”

May Allah guide us all in our intention, actions, utterances, writings, etc in our path towards contributing to Islam, nurture love towards fellow Muslims and build unbreakable bonds of brotherhood. Spreading salam and Avoiding Negative Suspicions (su'uzh zhon) are key ingredients in building loving relationships. Rasulullah saw said:
"You will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another. Shall I not tell you about something which, if you do it, you will love one another? Spread salam amongst yourselves."
[ Hadith Narrated by Imam Muslim, Ahmad & Tirmidhi ]

"O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins..."
[ Surah al-Hujurat, verse 12 ]
If we are sincere, the capacity of our love can overcome any obstacles that hinder us from bringing others to the Light of Truth. InsyaAllah
So, the best solution is begin with love………………….
"(On the Day of Judgement) you will be with those whom you love."
[ Hadith Narrated by Imam Bukhari ]

Verily, Allah knows best.

With love and duas,

References:

1) "Fiqhud Da'wah al-Fardhiyah" by Prof. Dr. Ali Abdul Halim Mahmud

2) "Rifqon Ahlu-Sunnah Bi Ahlu-Sunnah" by Syaikh 'Abdul Muhsin Bin Hammad al-'Abbad

Friday, May 1, 2009

path to paradise

companionship

seed of love for Islam

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

A Rainbow

A Diamond

A Righteous Wife



This poem is dedicated to all my sisters in Islam,
when true love is strong nothing will be wrong, as true love will fade all the misunderstandings, true love is willingness to forgive and true love is readiness to accept our beloved ones the way they are and true love is love for the sake of Allah. Alhamdullilah

In the Name of Allah The Most Merciful, The Most Loving
A Righteous Wife

Allah is extolled with her prayers
Fasting is made a tradition always
The Quran is her source of inspiration
While the home is her dominion

Wherever she is her morality is preserved
Accepting her husband with much respect and love
Willing to live and die together
For the sake of Allah the Beloved

She is content with whatever she has
Never asking for what is naught
She understands her husband’s position
For they are of the same opinion

If she is rich and wealthy
She would provide for him aplenty
To uphold the religion of the Almighty
Her love and compassion shining brightly

Children are under her tutelage
With her acting as the sage
The husband’s wealth is guarded safe
Letting him be involved with advantage

The husband feels the home as heavenly
Strengthening him wholeheartedly
In upholding his struggle openly
For the sake of Islam till eternity………….

nur sakinah thomas
7.35am, 16th February, 2009

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

THE BEAUTY OF A TRUE MUSLIMAH





A Special Dedication to All Beloved Sisters in Islam,
Thank you so much my beloved sisters Ayesha, An-necim,for being one of my source of inspiration to write this poem. Thank you Allah, for giving me beautiful sisters with beautiful hearts. May Allah preserve our love for each other in His Love and in His Light.
In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Gracious.

THE BEAUTY OF A TRUE MUSLIMAH
The beauty of a true Muslimah,
Is reflected thru her soul
Flowing with passion thru her eyes,
Growing in love with a glowing heart,
Revealing her internal beauty thru her acts,
Overflowing with love and comfort
As her life is full of compassion

She is like the tranquil hidden pearl,
Beneath the stormy wide ocean,
Her strength is her trust,
Her glamour is her modesty,
Her dignity is preserved,
Fearing Allah all the time
Living a life seeking Allah’s Redho and Love

Her aura of beauty is felt within
As she flourishes the lives of those she touches
With warmth and kindness
Her heart glowing with patience
As she nourishes the lives of those she touches
With understanding, sympathy and kindness
Her eyes glowing with love
As she binds hearts together
With her true beauty of sisterly love
In the name of love for Allah

nur sakinah thomas
2.20 a.m, 12th February, Kajang, Selangor, Malaysia.

FRIENDSHIP IN ALLAH’S LOVE



My special thanks to Alif Music team, for creating such a remarkable site for friendship in Islam. May Allah guide us with His Light of Truth and with His Enduring Love and care. I would like to share this poem with all the wonderful brothers and sister in Alif Music.
May we keep the passion of friendship in Islam glowing for the sake of Allah………..

In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Gracious.
FRIENDSHIP IN ALLAH’S LOVE
The glowing passion of our friendship in Allah’s love
Binding our hearts with words of trust,
Bringing our hearts together in an enduring nature
Together painting the song of love
In the canvas of friendship
Spreading the colours of life
And following the rhythm of our hearts

The glowing passion of friendship in Allah’s love
Binding our hearts with words of wisdom,
In understanding and honesty
Filing our lives with joy, grace and beauty
Brightening up our lives with
With the colours of the rainbow
Making our friendship a great blessing
Enduring in the mist of calamities

The glowing passion of friendship in Allah’s love
Binding our hearts with words of inspirations
Enlighten our hearts in comfort and warmness
Sharing joy and tears or lending a shoulder to cry on
Lifting up our spirit through giving and living
Love growing thru sharing and forgiving

Although we are miles away apart
Nothing can keep our hearts apart
In the glowing passion of friendship in Allah’s love

nur sakinah thomas
5pm, 7th February, 2009

Its a blessing from Allah.......................

Our twin daughters
On July 2007, my husband and I never expected the news of our children entering the universities will be out in the main news papers and sintok online. We actually did not realize that the person we meet on that day at UUM was a reporter! Anyway thank you so much for your kind effort. Alhamdullilah its all Allah’s blessings………….
It was indeed happy moments, but there were also painful moments which I cannot express in words….It was when I saw my twin daughters hugging on the day they had to be separated to be in different universities after 19 years they had been together until their matriculation college. They cried their heart out so suddenly while hugging…………..
Alhamdullilah, they can manage now very well emotionally, physically and spiritually and progressing very well in their studies




Harian Metro, 9 julai 2007
Oleh Samsudin Oli Mohamed

SINTOK: Seorang tukang urut yang cacat penglihatan bangga apabila tiga anaknya mendaftar serentak untuk melanjutkan pengajian di menara gading yang bermula kelmarin.

Tiga anak pasangan Ibrahim Md Isa, 47, bersama isterinya, Nur Sakinah Thomas Abdullah, 42, masing-masing mendaftar Universiti Sains Malaysia (USM), Universiti Utara Malaysia (UUM) dan Universiti Putra Malaysia (UPM).

Anak sulung mereka Mohd Ammar Ibrahim, 20, mendaftar di USM, manakala anak kembarnya Nur Mutmainnah, 19, mendaftar di UUM manakala Nur Syuhada mendaftar di UPM, hari ini.

Ibrahim yang ditemui ketika menemani Nur Mutmainnah mendaftar sebagai pelajar di Kolej Yayasan Albukhary UUM berkata, dia bersyukur kerana tiga anaknya berpeluang melanjutkan pelajaran ke institusi pengajian tinggi awam (IPTA).

“Saya bersyukur kepada Allah SWT kerana doa dan harapan supaya anak-anak ke menara gading tercapai.

“Kesungguhan isteri dan anak-anak untuk menjadikan keluarga ini mengamalkan budaya berpelajaran dan sentiasa berusaha untuk beroleh kejayaan amat membanggakan saya,” katanya.

Bapa kepada empat anak yang mengusahakan pusat urut tradisional di Kajang itu berkata, kehidupan mereka sederhana, namun berpegang kepada prinsip usaha dan menanamkan semangat untuk beroleh kemenangan yang dalam kehidupan.

“Rumah saya mempunyai tujuh almari tetapi bukan untuk menyimpan pakaian sebaliknya menyimpan buku-buku,” ujarnya lagi.

Ibrahim yang sentiasa senyum dan peramah ketika ditemubual melahirkan

rasa terkilan kerana tidak dapat membimbing anak-anaknya untuk belajar, tetapi dengan ketabahan dan kesanggupan ibu mereka Nur Sakinah yang turut menjadi pelajar dalam Unit Pendidikan Jarak Jauh di UPM menjadikan keluarga ini lebih bersemangat mengukir kejayaan demi kejayaan.
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http://oku1992.blogspot.com/2007/07/3-anak-si-buta-masuk-universiti.html



Cacat Bukan Penghalang
Tiga anak dipilih mengikuti pengajian di IPTA

CHANGLON: WALAUPUN cacat
penglihatan namun Ibrahim Md Isa,
47 bersama isterinya Nur Sakinah
Thomas Abdullah 42, bangga kerana
tiga orang anak mereka dipilih bagi
mengikuti pengajian di universiti tempatan
pada tahun ini yang
bermula kelmarin.
Anak sulung mereka Mohd Ammar
Ibrahim 20 telah mendaftar di Universiti
Sains Malaysia (USM) kelmarin
dan anak kembarnya Nur Mutma’innah
19 mendaftar di Universiti Utara Malaysia
(UUM) pagi tadi manakala anak
ketiganya Nur Syuhada’ pula akan
mendaftar di Universiti Putra Malaysia
(UPM), esok.
Ibrahim ketika ditemui di Kolej
Yayasan Al-Bukhary UUM melahirkan
rasa syukur kepada Allah s.w.t. kerana
doa yang dipinta selama ini termasuk
usaha daripada anak serta isteri untuk
melihat kejayaan mereka tercapai.
“Kesungguhan isteri saya dan anakanak
untuk menjadikan keluarga ini
mengamalkan budaya berpelajaran
dan sentiasa berusaha untuk beroleh
kejayaan amat membanggakan saya,”
katanya.
Bapa kepada empat orang anak yang
mengusahakan pusat urut tradisional
di Kajang berkata, kehidupan mereka
sederhana sahaja namun semua
berpegang kepada prinsip usaha dan
menanamkan semangat untuk beroleh
kemenangan yang besar
dalam kehidupan.
“Untuk makluman rumah saya mempunyai
almari sebanyak tujuh buah
tetapi almari itu bukan untuk menyimpan
pakaian sebaliknya menyimpan
buku-buku,’ ujarnya lagi.
Ibrahim yang sentiasa senyum dan
peramah ketika ditemubual melahirkan
rasa terkilan kerana tidak dapat membimbing
anak-anaknya untuk belajar
tetapi dengan ketabahan dan kesanggupan
ibu mereka Nur Sakinah yang menjadi
teman dengan turut menjadi pelajar
dalam Unit Pendidikan Jarak Jauh (UPJJ)
di UPM menjadikan keluarga ini lebih bersemangat
untuk mengukir kejayaan demi
kejayaan.
“Saya rasa semua ibu bapa mengharapkan
kejayaan anak-anak mereka namun
dalam masa yang sama kejayaan itu
harus di kongsi bersama kerana semua itu
adalah bersifat sementara,” katanya ketika
ditemui semasa menemani anak mereka
Nur Mutma’innah.
sintokonline.uum.edu.my/akhbar.pdf

Thank you Allah for your blessings

hadith on three daughters



our 3 beloved daughters.........

hadith on three daughters
‘Uqba ibn ‘Amir reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, “If someone has three daughters and is patient with them and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield against the Fire for him.”


Jabir ibn ‘Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “Anyone who has three daughters and provides for them, clothes them and shows mercy to them will definitely enter the Garden.” A man from the people said, “And two daughters, Messenger of Allah?” He said, “And two.”


Abu Sa’id al-Khudri said that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “No one has three daughters or three sisters and is good to them but that he will enter the Garden.”


source: SunniPath: Al-Adab al-Mufrad Al-Bukhari


My husband and I are blessed with 3 daughters and 1 son. Mashallah…....Its real rewarding........ May Allah grant us and all our Muslim brothers and sisters who have 3 daughters, the patience to bring up our daughters as they are great blessings from Allah. It is our great duty to bring them up with love and care so that they will be successful dunia and akhirat. Ameen

TREASURING CHLIDREN


my beloved children......my son at University Sains Malaysia, my twins at University Putra Malaysia & University Utara Malaysia (all of them doing their 1st degree)and my youngest daughter at Mahaad Hamidiah. Thank you for your precious love and care,ummi and abuya will always pray for your success dunia akhirat.


Their laughter brings joy to the soul,
Their cries brings worries to the heart,
Clutching the moments of hardship,
Just to release the moments of ease,
To make them smile, to make them shine,

Never resist God’s precious gift,
Cherish their presence whenever we can,
It’s amazing to watch them grow
With love and care
Within our souls

Thank you Allah for Your Blessings
And Joy You shed upon us,
I’ll nurture my children
I’ll treasure my children
As valuable ornaments
With my heart and soul
In the name of Allah’s LOVE……………………………….

Nur Sakinah Thomas
4.56pm, Kajang, Selangor, 16th December 2008

A poem specially for my visually impaired husband


My Beloved Husband


This Is From My Heart with Love To You
Thank you Allah for giving me a loving husband whom I love,
and share my life with.
I dedicate this poem to my great and wonderful husband who has always been there when I needed him…………….the most touching time was when you are willing to be my side when I was bedridden for a year and when I had to use the wheel chair to move about the following year. It has been 7 years now, but its still fresh in my mind.
You are very special to me today and always…….InsyaAllah………….


Alhamdulilah
Thank you Allah for your blessings...........

A TOUCH OF LOVE A MOUNTAIN OF JOY

I’ll always be your eye,
And guide your path
You’ll always be my light,
And guide my heart,
Every simple deed you have done for me,
Are great deeds in my eye,
This is from my heart to your heart
To thank you for
Everything you have done for me,
No matter how small
Will always be so great to me

The beautiful memories
are great blessings from Allah

Thank you for all the personal sacrifices
You made for me,
And for all the support that you
Have always given me.
For all the times when you understood me,
But most of all thank you for the love and care
From your heart,
This is to remind you
That I will always love you.
As I am truly grateful for
You are the man of my dreams

Love always,
Your wife,
Nur Sakinah Thomas.

Thank you so much for all the support you have given me to pursue my studies at University Putra Malaysia, thank you so much for the beautiful pens you bought for me, although you can’t write…………………but you taught me to read the Al-Quran and teach me Islamic knowledge and help me with my assignments and research work!!!Thank you so much.!!!!!

Monday, March 9, 2009

Allah Knows Best




Allah Knows Best
Allah often test us
With suffering and sorrow
Not to show his wrath
But for us to gain His love

We always want the sunshine
Warmness and comfort
But Allah knows there must be rain
To make us strengthen by rich gain

We always want laughter
With cheer and joy
But our heart will lose tenderness
If we never shed a tear

Sometimes Allah will not give us
What we desire
But He will give us
What we deserve

So, be patient and redho
With every pain Allah gives us
As its Allah’s way
To make our spirit strong
As Allah knows what is best for us.

nur sakinah Thomas
3.40a.m, 16th February, 2009,
Kajang, Selangor, West Malaysia

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Divine Tranquility

Divine Tranquility

Sunday, January 18, 2009

A poem for a sister

A poem specially for my sister Ayesha in USA

My beloved sister,
We are different in many ways
But there is one thing
That binds our hearts together
It’s the LOVE
From our AlMighty Allah
Through storms and thunder
Through waves of trials and obstacles
Nothing can fade
Our LOVE for each other
For the sake of Allah
In FAITH, in LOVE, in TRUST, in PATIENCE
We are sisters forever
Thank you for being my wonderful sister …………..

~Nur Sakinah Thomas~
1pm, 19 January 2009