Hugging our loved ones

 

How true, hugging inspires us and gives us strength to be balanced emotionally. As mothers hugs are priceless gift for our loved ones and from our loved ones. Children who frequently get hugs from their mothers, and in turns hugs their mothers experience pleasant emotional sates and posses the ability to cope with external pressures and stress as their internal strength is built each time they hug their mums making them posses higher level of trait emotional intelligence.

From my experience as a mum to four beloved children filled with hugs!!!

(status: working on my final stage of my research regarding the relationship between academic achievement and trait EI)  

Hugging is good medicine. It transfers energy, and gives the person hugged an emotional boost. You need four hugs a day for survival, eight for maintenance, and twelve for growth. A hug makes you feel good. The skin is the largest organ we have and it needs a great deal of care. A hug can cover a lot of skin and gives the message that you care. It is also a form of communication. It can say things you don't have words for. The nicest thing about a hug is that you usually can't give one without getting one.

~ Author Unknown

Hugs are not only nice they are needed... Hugs can relieve pain and depression.. make the healthier happier, and the most secure even more so.. Hugging feels good and overcomes fear... It provides stretching exercise to short people and stooping exercise to tall people... Hugging does not upset the environment.. It saves heat and energy... requires no special equipment.. Hugging makes happy days happier and impossible days possible. ~ Author Unknown

MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION2 essay from a BAND 5 student

 Sharing one of my matriculation students' essay. She scored BAND 5 for her MUET.

 Alhamdulillah & congratulations dear Najla for your success!!!

 Thank you very much for your contribution...

MID YEAR 2010: MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION 2
The world today is turning more to electronic communications such as the e-mail, Facebook and Short Message System (SMS). What is your opinion of this growing trend? Discuss. You should write at least 350 words. [60 marks]

As time goes by, the world is changing rapidly; so are its people and the technology itself. Technology brings about a lot of amendments in people’s life. It is getting more advanced from day to day especially when it comes to Information Technology or in this case; electronic communications. Back then, mailing was seemingly to be one of the most vital ways of communication especially for the world communication. In contrast, nowadays people are more prone to communicate the easier ways; by staring on their electronic accounts on their computers or through their iPods and sending short messages from their iPhones or Blackberries. Why is it so?In my slight opinion, this growing trend gives a lot of dominances in today’s life, which are helping people to save their time and money, create borderless communication and make it easy for people to gain prominent information.

          First and foremost, the world today is turning more to electronic communications like e-mail, Facebook and Short Message System (SMS) and other electronic communications is because they will prevent people from wasting their time and money. How do these work? As we all know, sending a letter to someone will take a lot of processes and will eventually take a long time and waste a lot of money. On the contrary, electronic communications entail only the tip of our fingers so as an electronic device to work with. Then, what is left for us to do is just, typing! Has that not taken a much lesser time and money? For instance, an e-mail only requires us to turn on our laptops, open our accounts on the website and then, you can start write your letter and send them through e-mails. In short, with the very unstable economy nowadays, having these kinds of communications will ease everyone’s burden especially on their daily expenses and also their valuable time will not be wasted.

           Secondly, the growing trend of electronic communications is making it possible for a borderless communication which is vital these days. Why is it vital? A lot of things require borderless communication; in education field, businesses and even daily activities, especially when foreigners involved. For example, when trading with foreigners, in order to communicate with each other, they need Skype or Yahoo Messenger as mediums to interact and be able to do the trade at a faster rate as compared to by using ‘snail mails’ or regular letters. Skype is the perfect example of an electronic communication which will cut the boundary that has separated each country and make communication between two different countries from around the world possible. In conclusion, it is crucial to have these electronic communications in today’s age of globalization as they make it easier for people around the world to connect with each other.

Last but not least, the dominance of these electronic communications is people could gain prominent information more efficiently than before. As there are lesser borders between countries, the efficiency of getting much more relevant and prominent information is higher. People will have the ability to provide and gain information effectively through Facebook or Twitter accounts. For example, international artists who have planned to do a world concert can inform their fans about it through their Facebook account. Likewise, the fans also can ask just about anything to their favourite artists regarding the concert. Hence, this explains why people make these electronic communications as a huge trend these days and in order to keep the trend ongoing, each person has the responsibility to adapt with the technology itself.

       In a nutshell, the growing trend of using electronic communications is inevitably vital in people’s lives as it gives out a lot of benefits as stated in above paragraphs. So, to avoid ourselves from not getting the chance of keeping up with the changing trends, we have to try our best to adapt ourselves with the rapid changes. I believe that the electronic communication trend is a trend which is very important to be followed as the world is getting more advanced day to day.

Zaidatunnajla Bt. Juhari

Tamhidi of Accounting and Muamalat

Universiti Sains Islam Malaysia

Batch2011/2012

How To Write Better (Essay)

 part of my final year law & syariah students at USIM
discussing their topic during a workshop (March 2011)

Touching simple words that reflect deep meaning

Sharing a small part of my module for a  presentation on how to write better academic essay, hope it helps...

Academic essay is written with the aim to respond to a question in order to inform/ explain/persuade etc readers of an idea based on fact/evidences/views. The types of essay can be factual. persuasive, argumentative, discussion or reflective and the format can be for speech, article or even reports.

An essay is a group of paragraphs that develops one central idea.The 3 parts of an essay are: 1). Introductory paragraph  2). The body paragraphs   3). The conclusion.

The introductory paragraph should introduce the topic, indicate generally how the topic is going to be developed, should be invitingand contains a thesis statement (with a topic and central ideas) A thesis statement is the main idea of the whole essay which actually helps us to focus on our essay.

Each of the body paragraphs introduce a topic in a sentence (topic sentence). The topic sentence also states an idea or an attitude about the topic (controlling idea). Then we need to write down some supporting details to support the main idea, elaboration to further describe, explain or discuss and construct a concluding sentence. (optional)

As for the conclusion, we can just restate the main points, restate the thesis, giving advice, suggestions, make an ending with a proverbor even stating our hopes/wishes

This academic essay framework which is shared below can be applied for  SPM English Paper 1, Question 2 of MUET Writing 800/4 or any English Language examination that test your writing skills.

FRAMEWORK FOR ACADEMIC ESSAY/  MUET WRITING 800/4

Introduction:	- - - Thesis statement:  Ø  Topic:……………………………………………………. Ø  central idea: a)       ………………………………….. b)       ………………………………….. c)       …………………………………..
1st body paragraph	Topic sentence:  ~ Topic:……………………………………………………….                 ~ Controlling idea:………………………………………………… Supporting details: - - Elaboration: - Concluding sentence: -
2nd  body paragraph	Topic sentence:  ~ Topic:……………………………………………………….                 ~ Controlling idea:………………………………………………… Supporting details: - - Elaboration: - Concluding sentence: -
3rd body paragraph	Topic sentence:  ~ Topic:……………………………………………………….                 ~ Controlling idea:………………………………………………… Supporting details: - - Elaboration: - Concluding sentence: -
Conclusion:	- - ©Nur Sakinah Thomas/UPM

Here is a sample to guide you in understanding the content of the framework.

RECOGNIZING A PERSUASIVE ESSAY

How to Communicate Effectively

Identify the thesis statement (with the central idea), topic sentence (with the controlling idea), supporting details, elaboration, and concluding sentence.

Establishing and developing effective communication is important in order to be heard and change your environment according to your own thoughts. No one will guess what you want or what you think if you don’t tell them, and nothing is going to change if you do not propose a change. [ (The purpose of this essay is to discuss four important skills that will help you communicate effectively.  ~ topic) (Such skills are not to be afraid of speaking, always defend what you want to say, express exactly what you mean to say, and listen while you are not speaking. ~central idea) ]Thesis Statement

[ (The first aspect to communicate effectively~ topic) is not to be afraid of speaking~controlling idea.]Topic Sentence   (Anytime you need to say something, go ahead and do it. Most of the time people are afraid of speaking because they are not sure if it is the right thing to say or the right moment to say it. Be sure, say what you want to say, and do not regret it. If you speak you will be heard and taken into account. You are important so you need to be heard. ~supporting detail)  (There is one thing you should not do somehow: Do not say something that will hurt somebody’s feelings. Unless that something has to be said inevitably, say it, but as softly and gently as you can. Never hurt anyone intentionally. Always think twice before saying something. ~elaboration)  ( You choose what to say, just be sure to say the right thing at the right time. If you do that, you won’t regret a thing.~concluding sentences)

Second, if you want to communicate effectively, defend what you say. (Once you have said something you can never go backward; you must back it up. The worst thing that you can do when speaking is to hesitate. Hesitance means self-insecurity and this means weakness. The strength of your words will surely determine their effect on the listener. The way that you speak and the content of your speech tell a lot about yourself and your personality. A conversation allows speakers and listeners to get to know each other better. ~supporting detail ) (Besides, people will only know what you say; they cannot go any further if you do not let them. ~elaboration) ( It is only by means of intelligence, strength, and security that you will be able to change the world around you and, it is also by means of intelligence, strength, and security that you will be heard and taken into account. ~concluding sentences)

The third main aspect of effective communication is to express exactly what you mean to say. (Pick up the words that will express exactly what you are thinking of. Do not forget that one half of a word belongs to the listener and the other to the speaker. The listener gets his or her own version of what is said. However your job is to express yourself clearly, so that you can avoid misunderstandings. Although, avoiding misunderstandings is a hard task (not impossible), when it is achieved you will be expressing yourself effectively. ~supporting detail) (Everybody will be able to identify exactly what you say, what you think, and what you want. Words are double edged weapons which can be used either to defend or to attack. ~elaboration ) (If you make a good use of them, you will be able to do almost everything. ~concluding sentences)

The fourth main point to effective communication, and probably the most important of all, is the listening part. (Listen and do not interrupt when it is no longer your turn to speak. You will surely learn new things from listening to others. If a person is speaking, it’s because she or he wants to be heard. Effective communication is based on both listening and speaking. If communication were based only on speaking, it would be an absolute tyranny. ~supporting detail ) (Nevertheless, communication is the means through which you express yourself in order to be heard and change your environment according to your own version of reality. ~elaboration) ( Thus, it would be impossible to change anything if there were no one to listen, learn, and accept new ideas. Listening is a gift, and good listeners are always very appreciated because there are only a few. ~concluding sentences)

(Effective communication will help you to express yourself better, allow you to let other people express themselves, and help you to change your environment toward your own thoughts and beliefs. Words inspire strength. Speak them. Words make you strong. Support them. Words show what you are and what you think. Do not let yourself be misunderstood. Words are valuable. Listen to them! ~conclusion)

(Composition for Non-Native Speakers of English )

MUET WRITING 800/4 past year questions for practice

MID YEAR 2009: MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION 2
Information and communications technology (ICT) is the cause of today's many social ills. What is your opinion? Support your answers with examples. You should write at least 350 words. [60 marks]

YEAR END 2009: MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION 2
People commit crime for selfish reasons. Discuss. You should write at least 350 words. [60 marks]

 MID YEAR 2010: MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION 2
The world today is turning more to electronic communications such as the e-mail, Facebook and Short Message System (SMS). What is your opinion of this growing trend? Discuss. You should write at least 350 words. [60 marks]

YEAR END 2010: MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION 2
In an arranged marriage, the choice of a husband or wife is made by parents or elders. What do you think of this practice in today's society? Discuss. You should write at least 350 words. [60 marks]

MID YEAR 2011: MUET WRITING 800/4 QUESTION 2
The most valuable thing in life is friendship. Do you agree? Discuss. You should write at least 350 words.[60 marks]

YEAR END 2011: MUET WRITING  800/4 QUESTION 2

"A person's career choice should be determined by his or her interest." Discuss. [60 marks]